Oh, sorry, I see what you mean!
Yes, if you don't wish to buy a suitable overlay to use, you really would make one with sandpaper, I reckon. Probably paint black paint onto white paper, then scuff it artistically.
I'm flummoxed, sorry. I have no idea what it would be.
I assume that if you choose "Camera Raw Defaults" from the little submenu over on the right-hand side, it's still there?
With two pitiful screens like that, you can never hope for really true results. "Reasonably close" is all you can hope for.
Yes, the process is the same for both screens. They're both laptop screens, essentially. Which calibrator do you have?
I'm so sorry, I don't know. I'm going to move this question to the GenDisc section, in hopes that other members are familiar with those programs, and can tell you.