Oh gee, is that a touch screen? They're never very good
Yeah, sadly it means that your screen isn't very good.
Are you able to plug in a desktop screen to your laptop, and calibrate and edit on that?
Well, tell me about the print comparison. How is the colour of your screen compared to the colour of your prints?
Calibrating in the dark is fine. Calibrating in dim light is also fine. But no, don't calibrate with the lights switched on.
Now we're getting to the crux of the issue.
It's fine to edit at night, AS LONG AS your room light is nice and bright, the same brightness as daylight.
Have you read this? https://www.damiensymonds.net/2012/01/light-around-your-computer.html