The first one is completely irrelevant, because you must work in changing light.
The second one ... well, that functionality is in Photoshop already, so I'm not sure what the benefit would be.
The third on ... how many screens do you have?
You can only judge sharpness at 100%. View both files with the Loupe in Bridge.
You can see me using the Loupe in this video.
Never use, or trust, Windows viewer for anything. Only ever use Bridge.
I get the same error message
I don't know if there's anything you can do, sorry. I've spent some time googling "dng file repair", as I'm sure you've done yourself, but there don't seem to be any good solutions leaping out at me.
With respect, that's impossible. All DNG files from one camera should be a very similar size. Please check again. It sounds like you were looking at jpeg files.
And? Have you compared it to other DNG files from your camera? Is 20MB correct?
By the way, you're in Adobe RGB. This is disastrous. Fix it right away. Click on the blue link at the bottom of the ACR window, and change from Adobe RGB to sRGB.