Which is why I beg you to take The Raw Class before too much longer. It will make everything make a lot more sense.
Correct. That's why your raw processing must be PERFECT before moving on to Photoshop work, because there is no going back.
Because you only sent me the raw file, not the accompanying xmp file, I can't see what you've done. But that's ok, I just need you to save a jpeg version of what you've done, and post it right here in the thread.