1. Try White LED for the first calibration.
2. That feature is only for laptop screens. You're not calibrating a laptop screen. It sounds like you're still reading the wrong instructions?
3. Leave it on Standard.
Regrettably, the two sides need completely different methods.
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I do have something you could try. It's not perfect by any means, but I think it helps.
Add a Photo Filter layer with these settings:
Then go to the Blend If Sliders and split the white one on the Underlying Layer, and take it almost all the way to the other end.
Then show me.